"Train up a child in the way he/she should go." In the origonal Greek, it reads, train up a child in accordance to how God has fashioned him/her. I am daily seeking the Lord as I raise my children. Asking for wisdom from on High as I seek to know "how they have been fashioned."
Eliza does not think outside the box. She was told to go lay down. And even though there were two other beds in the small bedroom with mattresses, she went straight to "her" bed. I can find her getting very frustrated when she is told to do something that she is unsure how to do or asked to do it in a way that she is not used to.
We know that God has plans for each of our children. May we not lay heavy burdens upon them but rather seek the Lord and lead them in "accordance to how they were fashioned."